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癞蛤蟆与青蛙的差别

我突然很欣赏癞蛤蟆
我突然很想做癞蛤蟆

我说爱情,你说现实吗?

为了爱情,放弃自己该有的生活,自己手上的小小生意,去到一个陌生的环境工作,值得吗?你会不会这样做?
什么让你有这个决定?她决定放弃她的指甲店了。去另外一个地方跟她男朋友一起工作。从一个生意的老板娘变去打工族,一个没有做过的工,一个没有生活过的地方。
怎样算值得不值得?你问我我也是不知道。算不到,不会算。除非她很确定知道以后她的生意一定很大,一定赚很多很多的钱。
我说为了爱情这样做,你会说她不现实吗?
我不会讲不现实。讲幼稚讲不现实讲还没想清楚的,只是因为你还没有遇到这种情况或者你太主观和拥有美好的生活兼根本不需要做这样的决定。
我身边当然也有人可以跟自己的另一半分开生活,甚至说分开很好,少见面,少摩擦,少吵架,见到时会更珍惜对方。我可以,但是我不喜欢。短暂我可以,长期我不行。只能说…我们要的不一样咯~
不是讲爽的,从我和KS在一起的第一天开始,就持续这样一年了。所以我可以说我不喜欢!我很明白这个感觉。 
会后悔吗?不要后悔。做了决定就不要后悔。后悔的时候就想一下当初为什么你会有这个决定。觉得不对劲的时候就想办法解决,后悔是帮不到的。
废话了一堆,我就是很伤心以后没有人免费帮我做指甲了!你答应过我我结婚时你要帮我画美美的指甲的!!!

一个人的想法

一个人在发呆。一个人在机场等待,一个人坐在角落,一个人看着人家在我面前走过,一个人上飞机,一个人看戏睡觉,一个人下飞机,期待着两个人的时刻,期待着与家人见面的时刻。
很久没有这样一个人静静的坐着想东西了。听起来好像emo了,绝对不是。只是纯粹感到轻松~
一个人,才有时间静静地想。想看自己要什么,想看什么是正常,什么是不正常。曾经有一个蛮高傲又让我崇拜的人,他问道 “什么是正常?”…
是不是人家怎么走我们就要怎么跟?是不是你不跟你就错了?是不是你不跟你就是不正常?
在工作上,是不是老板说什么你就要服从?是不是你做什么他不喜欢的你就是错了?你是不是卖身了?
我们做人要跟着自己的想法走!做人要有主见!觉得不对的,就要讲!要勇敢!工作嘛…喜欢就留不喜欢就走啊~勇敢的走,不回头的走,只要接受到可能会不好的后果,走吧!有什么大不了的~~~
但是!还是现实点吧,你没有钱没有能力没有特异功能,你就是要跟着走~~ 

自杀

你身边有人自杀过吗?

我有一个不是很熟的朋友今年选择了这条路,26岁选择离开这个世界。
不是很熟,但是心情还是沉重了一下,无法想象他的结拜兄弟们和家人的心情。
是什么让一个人有勇气自杀?自杀真的很需要勇气吧!在你跳下去的那一刻,或者在你放手的那一秒,是什么心情?是解脱吗?
以前心中都会骂那些自杀的人自私,为什么他们都不会想想身边的家人朋友。
直到这一次,是自己认识的人,我竟然没有觉得他自私,没有一点觉得他愚蠢,而是一直很想知道为什么,是什么事情让他选择放弃生命。
他临死之前,把所有的东西都删除了。把电脑 harddisk 带走,把手机里的内容全部删除。没有留下一点证据。他的朋友家人根本不知道为什么。
事后才发现他之前原来有不对劲,就是少接触朋友了,朋友约他,他也拒绝了。
也许生活煎熬?也许生命里没有东西留恋了?也许缺乏关怀?也许觉得自己对世界没贡献?还是有什么放不开的事情?对生活绝望了?觉得没意思了?
这永永远远都会是一个谜底,一个没有答案的问题。
一个人想不开的时候,很辛苦的时候,是很容易选择了断自己的生命。
所以我们一定要好好的关心和珍惜身边的人!

Travel to Bali with Family 2015

I went to Bali with my family end of June 2015. KS first time travel with my family, I guess he should not used my family travelling style. Because my family travel style is "hea", which KS is not those type, even for me also not really can accept it. We stayed in a nice Villa, 3 rooms with a private pool, around RM 760 per day.

We did not go through all the tourist location because we did not have enough time, but still we manage to go some of the popular tourist places.

The deepest impression I got from Bali is that: Massage is cheap and comfortable. We went to massage almost every night. I guess I would not go to massage again i I stay one more day there.

We went to water rafting in the third day. They have few level of rafting, I'm not sure we went for which level, but I can say ours are very relax level. Two hours, we did not really need to use much energy... And the best thing was the weather was very good on that day.

I have made a video of our water rafting momen…

Travel to Boracay White Beach 2015

Since I am working in Philippines, I must go somewhere popular over here, Boracay. 长滩岛. We always pronounced it wrongly as [bɔːrɑːkæ], but it's actually [bɔːrɑːkɑi], I knew it only after I went there.
One of my friends and I departed from Manila, and others were departed from Kuala Lumpur.
From Kuala Lumpur - Boracay takes around 8 - 9 hours. Including travel to KLIA. 1 hour Check-in and boarding in the airport, 2 hours Flying time. KL to Kalibo Airport (KUL - KLB). 4 hours Kalibo Airport to Caticlan Jetty. 2 hours Caticlan Jetty to Boracay Jetty. 15 mins and Jetty to your hotel. 15 mins
While from Manila to Boracay, of course it takes shorter time, about 4 hours. From Makati to Manila Airport. 30 mins Check-in and boarding in the airport, 2 hours Fly from Manila to Caticlan (MNL - MPH), 1 hour Caticlan Jetty to Boracay Jetty. 15 mins and Jetty to your hotel. 15 mins
So if you want to go to Pulau Redang, Pulau Perhentian, Pulau Tioman... from KL, they take about 6 hours ++, you can …

期望别人如何对待你

什么话会给你留下深刻的印象? 批评的话还是赞美的话? 还是骂你的话?
我记得小的时候, 我跟很多被宠坏的弟弟妹妹一样, 很喜欢说 “我跟妈咪讲!” 什么都说我跟妈咪讲。
有一天姐姐骂我说: “跟妈咪讲跟妈咪讲,什么都妈咪,以后你做错事坐牢你叫妈咪坐啦!” 不知道几岁听到这句的,记到现在。
很多东西就是很有道理的,直接的,会刺进心里,记在脑力,永久的。
之前有一个朋友跟我说过, 你对每一个人很好, 人家不一定要接受的, 你有没有想过人家要不要和接受不接受你的好?
当时不把这句话当一回事, 直到有类似的事情发生, 这句话就会马上浮现在脑海里。 很容易想到的, 因为这件事发生在跟我讲这句话的人。
也对,其实我真的没有想过。 而我只会一直埋怨别人, 问自己为什么。 问为什么我对你那么好, 为什么你会这样对我, 为什么你都不意识到~
你可以对别人好,但是不可以期望别人一定会对回你好。你怎样对别人,不等于别人需要怎样对回你。看不透这一点只会给自己添烦恼
当然,人家即使对你不好, 你也要做好自己,也要善良一点。 也凡是不要太介意。
*KS说他不明白为什么我那么介意*

Singapore Trip February 2015

This was the first time I travel with a guy, the handsome KS Wong, in February 2015.

We went to Singapore, why Singapore? Because both of us never been there and we always think we should go there...
I planned to chill there but we were travel like a tourist, went to all those tourist locations, and felt TIRED everyday! 
So... Next time I want to just relax if I go there again..
We fly to Singapore by Malindo Air, cheaper than AirAsia and baggage were included! And we stayed in Big Hotel in Bugis, room is small but nice hotel. The room is clean and cozy, the lights can remote by tablet, and the room comes with a full body big mirror! <3 

First day, we went to Orchard Road, walk in the shopping mall, and the road... I guess we just did not find the right place?? Because I saw nothing special over there.. Or I just did not have much money to shop?
Then, we went to Marina Bay Sands and visit the Merlion. The Marina Bay Sands buildings look beautiful at night, but when standing near t…

No Internet during CNY

Chinese New Year, I went back to hometown, it's my mom's hometown, Bahau, at a little corner of Negeri Sembilan. Bahau is not bored, for me, as long as I can online, it will always okay for me.


However, my grandparents' house is in a super good 风水 location, which is a lesser radioactive location, because the network cannot reach the house. So, I did not have Wifi nor data plan in that house, not even call anyone unless I walk out from the house.

I realize that we really cannot survive without internet. Internet is something like the second air in my world. We won't move to other place because of water ration, but we wish to move to another place due to the hunger of internet.

This is good chance for everyone to chitchat with each other, or watch tv together and have the same topic after that. (Although I don't see much chitchat without internet)


From this photo, in this era, 2015, you still see no one is playing with their phone here (Except me, because I used my…

我的部落格,跟以前不一样的是

跟以前不一样的是,我现在不会什么都写上网了。讨厌的喜欢的,知道什么可以写什么不可以写。当然,有一些也许别人介意的事情,如果我不介意,我还是可以让大家知道,跟大家说。



刚刚看到这个,有所感触。以前我真的什么都写出来,看回去,东西都还蛮 detail 的!
好处就是,当我要知道几时做过什么的时候,翻回去就知道了。
现在很多 social media 可以代替这个了,例如 Instagram。当然,Instagram 没有日期,没有 details 没有很多照片,没有故事。通过 Instagram,大家都是看图说故事。
我的 Instagram 是 link 去 Facebook 的,很多东西家人都会看到,所以也有很多东西不可以乱 post 了。我知道可以 restrict,但是 restrict 的话,就干脆不 post 好了~ *当然有一些还是会去 restrict*
跟以前不一样的是,我不会想要那么多 attention 了。想分享的,想批评的,想问的,想说的,只会在特定的 messenger chat 里面分享。我要的回应,就只是来自他们就够了,而不是大众了。
我们不断地寻找与增加新的人在我们的生命里,也不断地过滤能留下来的人。留下或离开,一定有它们的理由,不要太伤心一个人的离开,珍惜过滤后还可以留下的人!